We are in the age of planners. Planners are great when you know where you are going, you are where you want to be, and you understand what needs to be done.
But, what do you need when life throws you a curveball?
Do you need to better organize your overflowing list of to dos? To put everything in little boxes on your planner so that you can see them better?
You need to clarify what’s most important to you and get rid of the rest!
You need to make space in your life for where you’re going and what matters most to you…now.
You need to evaluate where you put your limited energy and time.
When life throws you a curveball, don’t throw in the towel.
These are the times that drive your focus toward what matters most and toward where you can have the most impact. Embrace these days and get ready for positive change!
How do we go about doing these things?
First, identify what you really want. No one really lets go of anything until they have a clear view of where they’re headed. No one lets go in a vacuum. Clarify your vision. And, when you clarify your vision, dream big! Ask yourself what “wild success” looks like. As the cheesy cliche [that I love] says, “Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss it, you will land among the stars!” Dream big and don’t edit yourself. Purpose and productivity guru, Michael Hyatt, says, “Build your dreams to be bigger than the obstacles.” The obstacles will certainly be there, but your dreams can definitely be bigger than them with some thoughtful preparation.
Second, let go of what is obsolete, irrelevant, or good but not the best. So often, the best is is squeezed out by things that used to be important to us, by things that are trivial or by things that are good but not the best. Don’t let that happen to you. Take time to evaluate what matters most to you and actively create space in your life for these few things.
Third, clarify what is within your control and what is not within your control. When life throws us curveballs, it is easy to spend a lot of energy spinning our wheels on the “what ifs” and “if onlys.” We can get caught up in unproductive thinking about what other people could or should do. Instead, let’s focus on what is within our power to change. My thoughts, feelings, attitudes, behaviors, and choices are in my circle of influence while an endless other things are outside. Tell yourself, “This is my new reality. Now, what true impact can I make with the steps that I take?”
When it is time to grow, the best thing to do is clarify your vision and let go of things that are obsolete, irrelevant, or good but no longer the best. Focusing on what you can control will give you the most result for every action you take. Use these three steps to identify what matters most to you and to clear space in your calendar and in your life to focus on what matters most.
But, wait. There is one more thing.
Fourth, expect change. Life is fluid. It is always changing. The clouds are always moving. The earth is always rotating. The universe is ever expanding. Nothing stays the same. So, be poised as you move forward to continuously reevaluate your vision, your priorities, and what is within and not within your control.
Then, the next time life throws you a curveball, you’ll be ready for it. Hit a homerun!
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Christine M. Wilson, LPC
Co-founder, Think Time
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